Healthy Resolutions for 2013
January 2nd, 2013 | Author: Alysha
I’m not so much about New Year’s resolutions and I am about continuously striving for improvement throughout the year. Sill, there is one thing I really want to work on and this pin says it all:
My biggest flaw is caring too much about what people think. Let me rephrase that. I care too much about what my mother thinks. If I get excited about something and she makes a negative comment, it sends me into a tizzy. Whether it’s an outfit or a life decision, I must have this subconscious desire to please her and be the perfect child. This year, I need to learn to let go. I am my own person and need to make my own choices — whether she agrees with them or not. I want to feel more confident in my beliefs and not feel the need to justify my every thought and action.
Here’s one choice that my mother would die over but I am completely in love with.
I finally bought the Lululemon Astro Pants that I’ve been coveting for years! (or so it seems) When they went on sale for $79, I knew I had to jump on these (they are originally $98, so $20 off is a steal). Most people, my mother included, would think spending that much on yoga pants is an absolute sin, but these are the most comfortable, luxurious yoga pants I have ever slid my butt into. It’s like I’m sitting on a cloud. Here is the side view:
This falls into my next goal: Take out more time for me and not feel guilty about it. Whether it’s meeting with my personal trainer or getting a massage, I need to take time for me in order to feel sane. I feel that it helps to schedule “me time” or else it won’t happen. This isn’t to say one should be self-indulgent all the time, but if you work hard, you deserve it. Plus, it helps keep your goals on track. I feel it’s finding balance between the two, which I still need to work on.
It’s funny how each of my resolutions center around guilt :)
Question: What are your goals for 2013? AND What do you spend a lot of money on that would make others think you’re insane? Other than these yoga pants, I’m a strong believer in good purses (I used to work at Coach, so I’m trained well). Coach and Kate Spade are my go-to brands. I also believe in buying the best running shoes I can afford. Proper footwear is key to preventing injuries.
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I don’t have that problem with my mom, but I do with other people, so I’m on the same page. Also, those yoga pants seem totally worth it :) Good deal!
Laurie @ Love, Laugh, Laurie recently posted..A Hepburn-Filled Post (Lots of Movie Reviews)
I’m happy someone agrees with my decision :)
Alysha @ Shesontherun recently posted..Healthy Resolutions for 2013
I like to think I don’t care about what other people think of me, but I totally do. I hope to one day be able to say that I truly don’t.
Brittney @ Brittney Breathing recently posted..2012 Resolutions: Revisited
It’s definitely a work in progress, that’s for sure.
Alysha @ Shesontherun recently posted..Healthy Resolutions for 2013
Love those pants! Sometimes you definitely deserve a good splurge–no matter what it is. I hope you enjoy them!! Great resolutions! Mine are to stop picking at my cuticles (gross!), wake up earlier, and read more books.
Brigitt @ Cook With B recently posted..Most Popular Posts of 2012
Ew! That is gross! Brenton still chews his nails and he’s 27!
Alysha @ Shesontherun recently posted..Healthy Resolutions for 2013
I know! :( I’m doing really well so far haha
Brigitt @ Cook With B recently posted..Soy and Sesame Kale Chips
ah I am the same way, i tend to just feel selfish when I take care of myself like that. Something I need to work on
Alex @ therunwithin recently posted..Take Two.
Cute pants – you should wear them to the swap :) I spend a lot of money on running-related stuff. People say the sport is cheap, and it is – until you start adding up races, travel, shoes, clothing, gear and nutrition!
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Running is only cheap if you’re an occasional jogger! Don’t forget gps watches and iPods!
Alysha @ Shesontherun recently posted..Healthy Resolutions for 2013
I think its great that you treated yourself!! Splurging on certain items is important. I always splurge on jeans and I generally splurge on running shoes too. I’ve also started becoming a jewelry snob. hahah!
My biggest goal for next year is to find balance between health, work, school and fun. It’ll be a challenge, but I’m up for it!
Carol @ Lucky Zucca recently posted..Happy New Year!
Purses are definitely my weakness!!!
Erica @ For the Sake of Cake recently posted..WIAW – First Day of 2013
I love Lululemon and their pants are fantastic…well worth the money. The quality is amazing and 1 great pair of pants cna totally make an outfit. I workout in Lulu but I love them for social wear too. Congrats on your new pants!
Luv What You Do recently posted..Healthy New Year Soup
I’m wearing them right now :) I read reviews that sometimes they pill. Has that ever happened to you? I’m definitely going to be babying these pants!
Alysha recently posted..Healthy Resolutions for 2013
One of the items on my 2013 to do list is to get a massage! Even though I have two gift certificates for massages, and I’ve never gotten one, I still feel like I need to earn them. How messed up is that? Someone has already paid for it, but I feel I don’t deserve the massage unless I run a marathon or something! Time to just let myself enjoy it without guilt.
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I hope you get to use them before they expire! And yes, you DO deserve it! Working moms do not get enough credit and they need to take care of themselves too :)
Alysha recently posted..Healthy Resolutions for 2013
My mom and I constantly clash on how much money I spend on food. I tried to take her to my favorite cupcake place recently, my treat, and she said “no way, I’m not stepping foot into a place that charges $4 a cupcake.” Although I can’t help but comment on how frequently she travels to Vegas, so until I can keep my mouth shut about her travel expenses, I probably shouldn’t complain about her food expense criticisms :)
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I think you can complain. Vegas food is expensive too!
Alysha @ Shesontherun recently posted..Healthy Resolutions for 2013
I LOVE that quote. I often care too much about what others think, so that really resonates with me!! And I am all for treating yourself. Those pants are super cute, and when you spend more on things I think you appreciate them more. Worth it!!
Alissa N recently posted..Gentle Whole Food Cleanse (Winter Edition)
Those yoga pants do look rather comfortable.
LOVE your 2013 Resolution of taking time out for you. I think we often spread ourselves too thin and loved ones don’t get a chance to spend time with us.
Kailey recently posted..Red Velvet Cheesecake Waffle
I need to put some more work into healthy resolutions for next year–great reminder. It was great seeing you again last night!
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It was great seeing you too!
Alysha @ Shesontherun recently posted..Healthy Resolutions for 2013
That is such a great way to focus the new year! Especially in the HLB world, it’s easy to get caught up in what you think that others think (confusing, but true!)
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An old friend of mine and I remember agreeing circa 1967, that Ford Mustangs and cars of that ilk would never be regarded as collectable.If you’ve got the space and life expectancy, you’d be well advised to set aside an early minivan or two.